Whether you've divorced once, twice, or thrice you're probably aware of the following:
"What a holler would ensue if people had to pay the minister as much to marry them as they have to pay a lawyer to get them a divorce." – Claire Trevor
We all dream of a life-long loving marriage and happy family. Then things happen. One spouse threatens, "Divorce!" Before we know it one of us walks out the door. The pain overwhelms us and our children. The parenting plans don't seem to work and the children act out in anger or close in on themselves with depression.
The one thing we can do is learn. If there was threatening, put-downs, hateful talk from before, we can keep them out of our present marriage. We can learn to communicate by listening well, creating romantic dates, and following the Couple's Meeting Blueprint found in the last class of my free 5 part marriage e-course, Parents, Stop Fighting! Save Your Marriage Now!
Each week you'll receive a class by email to help you to get rid of put-downs, demands, and threats like, "Divorce!" You'll practice the action steps for creating a fight-free marriage and a loving home.
Why pay a divorce lawyer when you can have this e-course free? You can create a loving marriage and family. I know you can. Find out more…
If you're already divorced and your children are having a hard time, consider my friend, Rosalind Sedacca's expert advice in her e-book, "How do I Tell the Children about the Divorce?" Rosalind has created a story book scrapbook with templates that tell you what to say before, during, and after the divorce. Use it with your children to relieve their pain.
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How are you making your family stronger. I'd like to know. Feel free to leave a comment below.
Jean
Jean Tracy, MSS
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