Family Conversations~No Fail Strategies from Expert Parent
Family conversations, when done well, build character in kids. But how do you stop them from becoming gripe fests? Our parenting expert today is Janet Powell, from Mentor Maestro. She'll tell us how to run effective meetings.
Janet Powell
"I believe family meetings are a great way to connect often and in a meaningful way. These are get-togethers where the expectation is that the whole family will attend.
A regular time is set and a democratic discussion follows where everyone has their say. It's not a complaints-fest but a time to share information, make plans, discuss problems, teach values and rejoice in achievements.
Around the dinner table is one place to have a family meeting. Lots of reflective listening will be done by the parents!"
To learn more from Parenting Coach, Janet Powell, visit www.mentormaestro.com
Jean's Response:
I like Janet's ideas for the family meeting. It's a place to learn life skills for listening, speaking, problem solving, and planning fun events. The family meeting builds character in kids because parents share their values too.
Jean's 3 Essential Rules for Listening at Family Meetings:
1. No interrupting.
2. Look directly at the speaker.
3. Pay attention to what the speaker says.
Jean's 3 Essential Rules for Speaking at Family Meetings:
1. Pick up the discussion where the last speaker left off.
2. Speak with a confident voice and use gestures to show what you mean.
3. Use a timer so you don’t “over-talk” and everyone gets a turn.
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With warm wishes,
Jean Tracy, MSS
Jean's Website ~ KidsDiscuss.com
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