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4 Loving Messages: How to Launch Your Child's Self-Image

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Children Leap for Joy When They Find Your Loving Notes

Your Child's Self-Image Is Important to You.

You want her to feel confident and believe in herself. Is there a simple way to increase her self-worth? Certainly!

Today I'll share a video and its script to get you started.

 

 

 

 First, Here's Something Important to Know

Research tells us that doing something randomly increases its meaning. Giving something too often lessens its power.

For instance, if you give your child a big bowl of ice cream every day for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and for snacks in between, she might lose her desire for ice cream. I don't suggest you experiment with this.

But wonder if ice cream was a special treat to enjoy once in a while. How might she feel about it then?

Love notes, given when least expected, could raise her self-esteem. Rather than giving a loving message 5 times a day like the ice cream example, a loving comment might do more good 3 or 4 times a week.

Kids Delight in Surprises

I suggest you rotate putting a loving comment in her shoe, under a pillow, in her favorite cup, or her favorite cereal box. Once you start, you'll think of lots of places to hide them.

Now for the Script and Video:

Parenting Kids with Love Notes

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3 Rules for Love Notes

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1. Be Specific

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2. Be Honest

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3. Be Positive

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Complete the 4 Loving Messages:


 1. I Love Your Smile Because...

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I Admire Your Artwork Because...

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I'm Glad When You're a Good Sport Because...

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I'm Pleased When You Offer to Help Because...

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Raising Your Child's Self-Esteem Is Easy with

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Pick up 75 Love Notes in the Parent Affirmations Kit at:
www.KidsDiscuss.com

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The video puts it altogether:

 

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Jean Tracy, MSS

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