Communicating Well Brings Couples Closer

YOU DO HELP YOUR FAMILY, when you and your spouse communicate well. If you talk with clarity, speak without over-talking, and use a respectful tone, good things can happen.

Your partner will feel valued, your children will learn, and you'll feel good about your approach.

In today's gift you'll find 3 helpful speaking and listening guidelines:

First - 6 communication tips to establish before you even begin to talk.

Second - 6 recommendations for good discussions when you're together.

Third - 3 important suggestions after you've solved a problem successfully.

These three communication guides could save your marriage. All it takes is a desire to make your relationship stronger, happier, and more fulfilling.

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Practice 5 Communication Skills to Prevent This!

COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS BETWEEN PARENTS CAN BE EXPENSIVE! According to the law offices of William 3. Neary, the average cost of divorce is $15,000-30,000. Child Custody Evaluations are $2,000-$10,000 and then there are moving expenses, health insurance, child custody expenses plus a whole lot more. That’s just the monetary side.

Emotionally, divorce puts the whole family through turmoil. Counseling is often recommended for parents and children.

Today’s gift shares 7 communication difficulties many parents experience and 5 communication skills to practice.

Fighting Couples Need to Make 2 Choices:

1. The decision to overcome communication breakdowns.

2. The determination to practice good communication with each other.

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Give your family a brighter future. Practice the skills that increase love, respect, and keep your together.

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Parents Can Visualize Solutions to Problems!

How you solve couple problems can scare your kids. They worry when you fight.

Most parents regret scaring their youngsters. Yet most couples still say and do painful things they can’t take back. If you and your mate have communication difficulties, here’s help.

You can’t make your partner a good communicator but you can become one.

If you focus on the last fight and the one before that until you remember every conflict, you’ll create a strong negative pathway in your brain paved with your couple struggles. By recycling old hurts with new ones you can easily build a case against your partner. You’ll also have a convincing mental route to follow whenever a new problem occurs. When that happens, don’t be surprised if you explode. You don't have to lose your cool. You have choices.

Two Choices

“You have a choice. You can either focus on what’s tearing you apart or what’s holding you together.” - Pinned by Gelyn Resuma

The Third Choice

You can raise your self-esteem by visualizing your best self handling a problem you tend to avoid. If you do this before falling asleep and before rising in the morning for 3 weeks, chances are you’ll become the good communicator you want to be.

Today’s gift, Self-Esteem Visualization for Couples with Problems will show you how to handle difficulties with elegance and no regrets. Then, when your kids are watching, they’ll feel the change. Why not calm their fears by solving problems with dignity.

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A boy I counseled had often seen his parents screaming at each other. He acted out  their behavior. The school contacted his mom and dad.

You Can Create a Happier Marriage!

Even though their son yelled at, hit, and hurt other kids on the playground, his dad said, "Boys will be boys!" This his sister started causing similar problems at school. Finally, the parents paid attention. That's when the school contacted me.

The kids did what they saw the parents do. Yet deep inside, they feared their folks would divorce.

If fighting is hurting your marital relationship and your kids are being affected, you CAN change. In today's brief blog video, you'll find 3 miserable marriage traps, 3 questions to ask yourself about each trap, and 3 ways to overcome the trap. You'll also find 4 helpful communication tips for couples.

Watch the video as often as you want. You can even download the script below the video to use the information when you need it.

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Kids hate to hear their parents fight. Their friends' parents are divorcing. They're afraid you'll be divorcing too.     

   You don't have to fight to feel                          alive!               

How can you quit scaring your child? If you agree that it's time to find out, keep reading.

In this blog's article you'll find out if you share one of the 7 common communication problems. You learn why it's important make a specific resolution, what to give up, and how to fight fair.

In addition there are 15 easy problem-solving steps that don't scare kids and help you get what you want. You'll breathe new life into your relationship too.

Here's the article, How Fighting Parents Can Stop Modeling Anger

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