IF YOU’RE A BUSY PARENT AND YOU KEEP SAYING to your child, "I don't have time to talk," or “Not now,” there could be some parenting consequences.
Not having time could send him the message, “You don’t count. What I’m doing is more important than you are.” Of course, it’s not what you mean but it could be the message he receives. What can you do?
In our parenting video today, the first big tip deals with your lack of time. Let’s say you really can’t talk because you’re on an important phone call. Say, “Just a moment” to the caller. Tell your child when you can talk with him by saying something like, “Give me 15 minutes. Then, let’s talk.”
By your following through, your child will learn 2 things:
- Waiting is not the end of the world.
- Trusting you to keep your word is worth it.
You are the most important person in your child’s life. Giving him time to talk increases his love for you because your attention and approval are what he seeks.
Feel free to scroll down beneath the video and copy the 10 tips.
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